Solitude is bliss
The love for being alone has definitely grown on me over time. I think back to when I was younger and I used to absolutely hate it, I felt the need to be surrounded by people all the time, immersed in their somewhat boring small talk and casually engaging in it myself. If I were to be left home alone, I would call my grandma, I would spend the whole time on the phone to her, if she didn’t pick up the phone I would pay a long visit to my neighbours. Every day off school I would be with someone, every weekend I would be with someone, simply thinking about it now tires me out!
Looking back on these times is so odd for me as I usually crave being home alone, spending time with myself and at the most part, not having to wear pants (perks of being alone). It’s ironic, I’m currently alone on a train writing this, and thoroughly enjoying myself.
Don’t get me wrong, I adore the company of some, but theres something about being with myself that I prefer. I have become independent and being alone allows me figure things out, I’ve also stopped worrying about how I’d be perceived for not going out, which is a nice feeling.
Sometimes being around people tires you out, it all becomes overwhelming and you just need to separate yourself from the rest of the earth. Telling someone you don’t feel like hanging out is perfectly fine. Taking a day off school every now and then reserved for some you time is perfectly fine. Regain your senses, gather yourself together, then head out into the swarming, insane world again.
I now feel fortunate that I’m completely okay with being by myself. Not having the need to be around people is comforting within itself. A weekend without plans doesn’t cause me to fret nor bore me to tears. I have come to terms that I am happiest when I’m alone, it has helped my find myself and construct who I am as a person. It’s healthy to spend time alone, you need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person. I don’t fight solitude, and that rules.
The Arctic Monkeys - I Wanna Be Yours
Secrets I have held in my heart,
Are harder to hide than I thought,
Maybe I just wanna be yours.
I wanna be yours, I wanna be yours.
nothing says hope quite like flowers growing through the cracks in concrete
beauty can rise from ashes
In order to receive respect, you have to give respect.
Last night, I saw a shooting star at the Happiest Place on the World.
I saw another one on the drive home
Oddly enough, I couldn’t figure what to wish for
because I’m at this place in my life, in this world
where I’m beginning to open up my eyes to the
reality of it all. What are wishes come true?
Do they ever come true at all? It’s cynicism talking through.
I made a wish anyway, and another..
There’s always hope out there,
even in the stars.
Going up against the professionals. Wish me luck.
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Fact submitted by: bonjourtammy
I’ve realized I’m the saddest/crankiest when I’ve been home for too long. But I do love my sister, and I love my family, I just can’t stand this repetitive lifestyle.